Kinky, Sexy Fun With Vibrators – Part One
Hello Sexy Perverts! Since it’s Masturbation May I’ve been thinking about sex toys a lot. And I bet a lot of you have too! In fact, I did a little survey on our Enchantrix Empire site about guys and their sex toys and I got a lot of very interesting responses. 88% of respondents have used a sex toy at least once and a large percentage use them regularly. In particular, I was interested in vibrating toys. 75% of respondents have tried them and 44% reported using them at least once a month. As I already suspected, guys like sex toys just as much as we ladies do. Check out the full results of the survey here.
Kinky Sexy Fun With Vibrating Sex Toys
I wondered how long people have been having kinky, sexy fun with vibrators, so I looked into it. I had always believed the lore that vibrators were originally invented in the Victorian age by a physician who was desperate for a way to cure women of their “hysteria” and thought that a good session of medically administered clitoral stimulation would do the trick. But it turns out that’s not even true!
According to an article in the New York Times, although it was invented by a medical doctor in the late 1900’s, it wasn’t meant to be a masturbatory device at all but as a medical appliance for general wellness. Advertisements from the time show claims that vibrators could be effective for everything from anti-aging to treating tuberculosis In fact, there was some concern that people, in particular women, women might be tempted to use them for sexual pleasure which was strongly discouraged and considered immoral.
Convenient Orgasms
Of course, as we know, it’s impossible to stop a woman in search of easy, convenient orgasms so it’s no surprise that it didn’t take long for Victorian ladies to succumb to the allure of the sweet, electric vibrations despite the dire warnings against doing so. They were, of course, using them covertly and certainly off-label. This secret self-care continued until the seventies when society finally decided that women’s sexuality was not going to lead to the downfall of modern society.
Now, of course, anyone can buy a vibrator and most people aren’t even ashamed to do so. Even better, it’s even recognized that they can be very beneficial to everyone despite not actually having any effect on the aging process or tuberculosis – just a lot of kinky, sexy fun with vibrators. The most obvious benefit is enhancing sexual experiences.
I know how much and the many ways that I enjoy using vibrators, but that’s not the subject of this post. I’ll leave that to your imagination and fantasies. I thought that instead I’d explore the ways that guys use them and find out new ways that all of you can use them to level up your sexual pleasure.
You may be thinking, “But Ms. Roxie, now that I know that I want to use vibrating toys what kind should I try?” Well, my sexy perverts, you have a lot of options. I like to think of sex toys for men as divided into two broad categories: (1) toys that you use outside of your butt and (2) toys that you use inside your butt. Plus a third category that includes both of those: remote/long distance toys.
Kinky Sexy Fun With Non-Butt Toys
Traditional Vibrators
These are your classic/basic vibrators which I’m pretty sure were the first ones available on the market once they were sold as sex toys. They were probably called “adult novelties” or “marital” aids then. This also includes bullet or egg-shaped vibrators and wand-style toys.
The possibilities with these are endless and they can be used anywhere (except your butt!). Your nipples, balls, and cock are good places to start. But also try stimulating your prostate from the outside by trying it on your perineum. I’ve been told that the very best place to use a traditional vibrator, though, is the underside of your shaft just under the head where it’s really sensitive. AKA your frenulum for those of you who like proper anatomical terms.
Vibrating Stroker Toys
These vibrating toys include sleeves, strokers, and Fleshlight-type toys. They are basically a tube made of a material that feels soft and somewhat skin-like. They’re supposed to simulate the feeling of intercourse but you’ll have to let me know if it actually does. I don’t know for sure, but this kind of toy must be the simplest one for guys to use. From my perspective, all you have to do is stick your dick in it and go.
A lot of them have very complicated-looking ridges and textures on the inside for extra sensations and many are even made to look like actual body parts such as vaginas, mouths, and butt holes. And lucky for all of you, they are available in varying levels of tightness and length to accommodate a wide range of cock sizes. Pro tip: Look for open-ended designs for easier cleanup after the fun.
Kinky Sexy Fun With Vibrating Nipple Clamps
In my experience, nipple play in guys isn’t as common as it should be. Which is a shame since it can intensify arousal and orgasms – especially with vibrating nipple clamps. Nipples on both males and females have a lot of nerve endings and can therefore be a very sensitive area of the body. Depending on the design, they can provide pleasurable stimulation or even a little pain if you’re into that. Along with the vibrations, they can pinch and squeeze the nipples as much or as little as you prefer. Plus, they’re tiny and portable.
Nipple clamps are usually one of three different types: clover, tweezer, and clothespin styles. Some of them are adjustable and some even come with a nifty chain connecting them for the stylish nipple play enthusiast. That’s a lot of choices for a seemingly simple style of device!
Vibrating Cock Rings
Another style of toy that is conveniently small and portable is the vibrating cock ring. The vibrations add pleasure to the already pretty cool restriction function of cock rings which results in stronger, harder, and longer-lasting erections. They can also have the benefit of making the wearer’s cock more sensitive to touch. Plus the vibrations can stimulate your lady partner’s clitoris during sex. A win, win, win!
***To be continued in part two!***
What Do You Think?
So, my sexy perverts – what do you think about my take on kinky, sexy fun with vibrators so far? Did I leave something out? What is your favorite type of vibrator and your favorite way to use it? If you want to tell me all about it, give our dispatchers a call at 800-601-6975 and they’ll take it from there. And do let me know what you think in the comments below as well!
And wait! Before you go, make sure you read part one of this series: Moments in Kinky, Sexy Women’s History – Part One and Moments in Kinky, Sexy Women’s History – Part Two. You’ll be glad you did!
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Fun blog post Mistress Roxie.
I don’t have any of these toys yet. But i am going to be acquiring one soon. One that can be controlled remotely by You Mistress’s.
I posed a question to the Mistress’s not long ago as to which toy they most wanted to have control of. There was not a definitive answer. But the one I will probably be getting is the Domi and add the male attachment option.
That’s a good point about considering open ended sleeves for cleaning. Some of those fleshlight toys have pussy shapes moulded from some porn stars pussy’s. What would You Mistress’s think about having Your pussy a fleshlight option Hmmmm??
I have nipple clamps but not vibrating. They add the endorphin kick from a little pain, which is the same chemical that creates pleasure….. Interesting how that works.
As for proper anatomical terms…. Fuck That…. Talk fuckin dirty as You can. hehe…
I’m so glad that you liked the blog post – I thought it was pretty fun too! Thanks for commenting and letting me know ???? I like the Lovense remote toys a lot. I have several of my own and have played with a lot of people who like them too. Particularly their prostate simulator and their butt plug. And speaking of butt toys, my next post will be all about vibrating butt toys. And you thought this one was fun!
Mistress Roxie, I loved your article! It’s a very interesting read with a glimpse into history.
I still feel a bit of shame when I have to go shopping in a sex shop. But it’s much better than before.
I used to buy a vibrating butt plug, handcuffs, penis sleeve, or we were once shopping with my wifey also dildo. Unfortunately we somehow never used that at the end.
Now i use mostly buy through an online store, where I also bought a chastity cage. Luckily it fits me perfectly:)
I love the nipple clamps, the more pressure the better. I use such office clamps because they are very strong. I love the pain of it, but I can only last cca half an hour at most. Maybe I could last more if someone told me to:)
Thanks for the article, it’s awesome and I look forward to continuation.
XOXO Casandra.
Thanks so much for commenting and letting me know that you liked the post! ???? It sounds like you’ve collected a lot of fun toys. And yes, online shopping makes it a lot easier. Wow – office binder clips are VERY intense as nipple clamps – especially for half an hour. You must have a really high pain tolerance ????
I love the pain on my nipples, it’s an incredible endorphin boost. I also dream of remote control toys especially the chastity cage. I believe one day that dream will come true…
That’s interesting, I like that dirty talk too, but only when playing session, I prefer normal talk when talking… just for the record:)
Have a great day amazing Mistress Roxie!
Thank you Casandra! I hope those dreams of sex toys come true for you too!
Thank you beautiful Mistress Roxie! <3
I believe so!
Have a great weekend.
Oh, Ms. Roxie! You are certainly passing around “GOOD VIBES” with this hot post!
I can’t wait for part two, IMO I’d love to hear your take on “vibe torment” tee hee…
Am I cruel? Perhaps, but in the most delightful of ways! ????????????
Look here, our friends from Enchantrix Empire!! My darling pet hands, supporting my friends, great job!
Casandra, who was “NEW” but is such an important part of our Enchantrix world now!
*waves* Hi hi!!
Lol Ms Erika! I can’t believe I didn’t think of using the phrase “good vibes” anywhere in there. And yes, I was so excited to see some friends from EE commenting on my blog. It is much appreciated!
Amazing Mistress Erika, what you wrote really made me happy! It is a great honor to be part of the EE world, led by all such amazing women.
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Greeting Goddess. I actually have experience with vibrators. As you know Im married. My wife has my penis locked in chastity, letting me out on occasion. Since you are aware of my exploits sexually, its no surprise that i found out that my next door neighbor is regularly screwing my wife. In the rare times that my wife lets me out of the cage , she orders me to us a vibe while i jerk off. Of course , it lasts all of 2 min or less. Thats the pleasure i get until im locked up again
Oh wow… two minutes or less with the vibrator and then back into chastity? That sounds deliciously frustrating. I love it!